I think I’m beginning to get it now… When God says that sex is created to exist within the marriage circle, it’s like sharing a secret.
Husband and wife shares a secret that they cannot share with anyone else because it breaks that trust. And also, it’s nice having a secret between two people, knowing that the only other person in this whole wide world who knows this secret is your husband/wife.
The secret bonds them, binds them, and brings them closer, gives them something to talk about, to refer to, to snigger over, shutting out the rest of the world.
And that’s kinda beautiful.